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How to prepare for down time when you are pursuing a frugal lifestyle?

 


I recently spent a lovely week in Washington DC with family. After 3 years with no travel due to Covid 19 concerns, it was a well deserved break.

My lifestyle has allowed me to travel extensively over the past 13 years. I consider myself fortunate that my spouse, who I met in 2010, loves to travel as much as I do and we made travel a priority in our relationship. In fact we’ve visited over twenty countries together and hundreds of cities. But we also prioritize health and since I have several auto immune challenges we decided to lay low versus taking health risks. I’m happy we decided on this path, but I’ll admit it was a long haul.

Of course the second challenge we all face is the rising cost of everything. If you are seeking a debt free lifestyle, time off work and travel may seem out of reach. And frankly it may be. This is the case if you don’t have paid time off included in your compensation package. Even if you do have paid time off, it may not be a good time to squander your hard earned dollars on a tropical get away.

The barriers to vacation time are many, but you should weigh the financial cost against the mental health toll working without a break can have. I found my recent getaway to be a perfect way to recharge my ambition, something that has to happen every year or so to help me continue being productive.

What are your options if you don’t have paid time off, or if your budget is constrained? I have a few ideas. Understand that this is likely a temporary solution. Nothing is forever and looking for less sexy options for your annual break is a good idea if you need to recharge but aren’t in a position to book a European break.

First things first. If you don’t have a job that offers paid time off, consider finding a job with this benefit. If you don’t have the skills to land a job with paid time off, start getting your skills upgraded so that you are more marketable in a completive job market.

Naturally that is not an immediate solution, so here are few ideas that might help.

Take unpaid time off, even if it is only two days surrounding your normal days off. This is expensive, but worth it. You have to have time off to rejuvenate. When you hear people brag that they have accumulated ages of time off they will cash in on when they retire, don’t think of that as a badge of honor. They are doing themselves a disservice.

If you can only afford a staycation, that’s perfectly fine. Just make sure you plan to use your time well. Do not stay home and watch television one hundred percent of your time off. While this is a good way to relax, you won’t go back to work feeling energized, because you’re not being pulled away from your normal existence. Being separated from your typical activities is like jump starting your imagination.

Back to a staycation. Find a few things that are available in your area for free or very low cost. For example I live within forty minutes of a historic library. It’s free to go in and enjoy the outstanding architecture. I can couple this with wandering the downtown streets and enjoying a simple food cart meal.

Find out the free days for the museums in your area and plan your vacation time around this. Most museums offer a free day once a month or once a quarter. Take advantage of this and couple your time with a walk in a nearby park, a thermos of coffee or tea and a good book.

If you enjoy the outdoors, plan to spend time at a park, in the hills hiking, or walking near a river or beach. Outdoor time is great for clearing your head and contemplating your creative side, your romantic interest or your career ambitions. Distraction free fresh air can work wonders on your attitude.

Take a day trip to a local attraction. If you can afford a ticket to the aquarium, a tour to your local “underground” historic space, or a ride on a downtown cable car, hop on hop off bus or other attraction, it might be worth the cost. Crunch the numbers and see what you can manage.

Go to your local convention and visitor’s bureau website to learn more about attractions in your area. If you don’t have a convention and visitors bureau in your area, check out your chamber of commerce website. Some of the best times I’ve enjoyed was walking around a location and photographing what the location has in interesting ways. I use my phone and choose fun or unique angles to capture a statue or graffiti. I use a filter to get a fun look to my photo or I use a filter on a video of a river or waterfall. Challenging myself to look at sites differently with a unique perspective is fun and provides a reminder for myself of what I did that day.

If you can spring for time away but it has to be domestic, I suggest visiting a national park or national monument. You can’t find a better value, and the sites are always a treat. I spent six weeks car camping with my spouse in the western United States and Canada. We tent camped, and spent our days hiking, then in the evening we chatted while I used a water color paint set to wind down in the early evening. Our strategy was to keep our camp set up simple, and to not waste a lot of time with cooking and food prep. Outdoor kitchen time is time consuming, and unless you think it’s fun, just avoid it. Camp sites in the United States are fee based, by and large, unless you are back packing. If you plan to car camp be aware there is a fee. Securing a camp site can be tricky. Some campgrounds allow reservations some are first come first serve. Check the website for the spot you want to visit.

Speaking of first come first serve, avoid the crowds and show up early. It doesn’t matter where you are visiting; the early bird catches the worm. This holds true for popular hiking trails, museums, restaurants and more.

If you are planning on a longer distance, know that travel in the United States is expensive. Hotel rooms are expensive, attractions are expensive, food is costly. All this takes a bit of planning. Washington DC was a family visit for me and my spouse, so we saved money on a hotel room for a couple of days, we rode the train into the city, and we visited the free Smithsonian Museums. Washington DC is a great value. When we departed from family and carried on for the rest of our week on the east coast, we selected a 2 star hotel. It was old and worn out, but if sufficed. It was not the most comfortable stay I’ve ever had but it was fine and it was only for a few days. Sometimes you have to be willing to compromise. Would I have preferred a four star hotel? Yes. Did I need a four star hotel? No.

If you think you can swing a European vacation, I suggest Eastern Europe or Greece. You can find really great accommodations very affordably in many countries were as Western Europe is much more expensive. When we plan travel expenses we normally have one person pay for our flights, and the other person pays for lodging, ground transportation and meals. This method has served us well and we normally end up being very close to fifty/fifty on our expenses.

Do you want to get away to a beachy location? Go to Mexico. I’ve been to Mexico many times and its one of my favorite destinations. I prefer the Yucatan peninsula because I like the vast number of historic sites. Stay away from the resorts, they are expensive and not that fun. They will try to keep you on site so they can sell you alcohol, restaurant meals or souvenirs. If you do want to get off site, they will sell you a tour. In fact we had a concierge once tell us that Mexico is dangerous and that we should not “wander around” without a tour guide that he could arrange for us. We ignored his advice, grabbed a local shared bus and had a great time wandering around. My only regret was that I didn’t take the advice of a local food server when she clearly stated that the hot sauce was “caliente”. It was extremely hot, or “caliente” and my mouth was on fire for the rest of my delicious taco meal.

Timing is crucial. If you are planning a vacation over Memorial Day, Labor Day or another holiday, you’ll spend more. If you plan your vacation over summer break, you’ll pay more. We decided to take time out the first and second week of May. Why? Because there are fewer crowds. Crowds equal limited supply and high demand therefore most expense. Be aware of local holidays when you travel as well. Greece celebrates orthodox Easter. Some communities have religious holidays that keep establishments closed. Take my experience as a warning. I visited the island of Tierra del Fuego over a religious holiday. There were five restaurants in the small town we used as our “headquarters” and none of them were open over the several days we were there. We ended up getting cheese and crackers from a local convenience shop and ate that for several days. Not terrible, but not ideal.

Those are a few ideas of how to get away and save a bit of money. Remember to prioritize your health and take time away from your work space. Even if you only make time to read a good book in the park with your water bottle and a box of crackers, you’ll appreciate not having demands and the opportunity to think about your life and how to achieve what you need to carry on successfully.

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